How to Create a Mindful Corner for Kids

How to Create a Mindful Corner for Children

I’ve been talking a lot about mindfulness lately.  Talking about it is one thing, practicing it is another.  It’s really hard to slow down and be mindful throughout our chaotic days with kids, but I make my best effort because I feel it’s so important for our children’s growth and health (as well as my own).  

Creating a mindful corner is one way you can help your children be more mindful.

*This post may contain affiliate links, which means I make a small commission at no cost to you.  I only promote things I believe in.  Thank you for supporting Seashells and Storytime!A mindful corner is a quiet and comfortable space for children to go to practice mindfulness and take a break. #mindfulness

I’ve been having some parenting challenges related to listening in my home.  I’m sure you can relate!  When my kids are having a hard time listening or controlling their bodies (i.e. hitting, kicking, jumping off the couch) I usually ask them to step away for a few minutes until they feel they can be kind and in control of their bodies.  While I’d like to say I am always patient and handle things this way, from time to time I hear these dreaded words come out of my mouth: “go to your room!”  Ugh!  I hate those four words.  

When I was growing up “go to your room” was how many parents disciplined their children (among other tactics).  As times have changed and parents have more parenting resources available to them, more and more parents are using positive parenting techniques, rather than the “old-fashioned” discipline strategies.  I’ve read several parenting books and I really strive to practice the parenting techniques outlined by Janet Lansbury in No Bad Kids.  But, sometimes I fail.  I lose my temper, I shout, and I yell at my kids to go to their rooms.  Ugh!

This isn’t to say you’re a bad parent if you use the “go to your room” method.  We all do what works for our family and I’m not here to judge.  Whether you send your kids to their rooms or not, a mindful corner can be a useful tool.  

 

Why have a mindful corner?

I decided I want to do away with “go to your room” and have a safe space for the kids to go when they need time to unwind, relax, read a book, write in their journals, or take some deep breaths to get their bodies in control.  I created a mindful corner where they go to take time to be mindful of their thoughts and actions.  

This space is not meant to be used as a punishment.  It is designed to be a positive space where the kids can feel safe being themselves, expressing themselves, and being mindful of their thoughts and actions.

Instead of shouting “go to your room” (or even nicely asking them to go to their rooms) I ask my children to take a break in the mindful corner to de-stress and re-focus.



But, will it work?

I know what you might be thinking…this sounds great, but will it really work?  Can you really be mindful as a parent in those moments when your kids are hitting each other, jumping off couches, and spilling milk all over the floor?  Will you be able to take a deep breath and calmly ask your child to take a break in the mindful corner?  And will they actually listen?

The mindful corner should not be used as a place to go when you’re doing something wrong.  It should be a space the kids want to go.  They should enjoy spending time there so start by encouraging them to spend some time reading or writing in their journal in the mindful corner.   Check out my post – 5 Ways to Practice Mindfulness with Children to get ideas on how you can incorporate mindfulness into their every day.  

If the mindful corner is a positive space asking them to go there to calm down won’t be a big deal.  Your kids won’t think you’re trying to punish them and you won’t be shaming them for their behavior.  Instead, you’re giving them an opportunity to take some time to reflect, calm down, and start again, without the negativity and shame.  That is positive parenting!

We are all human.  We all lose our patience.  We all wish we had handled things differently from time to time.  This won’t work every single time.  Every day is a new day and every teaching moment is a new opportunity.  Be easy on yourself and your kids.  Keep working on mindfulness every day and don’t give up.  Over time you will start to see small changes lead to big ones.

How to create a mindful corner in your home:

Here’s what I suggest for your corner:

  • Comfortable chair or pillows
  • Calming Jars
  • Journal
  • Books
  • Music
  • Stuffed Animals

There are no specific rules you need to follow when creating your mindful spot.  If possible, find an area that is far enough out of the way that your child won’t be distracted by other people in the house.  Grab a comfy chair, or some pillows to create a comfortable and welcoming space.  Create some calming jars to keep your children’s hands busy and help them re-focus when they need some time to take a break.  

Include your kids! Have them create some artwork and ask them to help you design the space.

I said there are no rules, but actually, there is one.  No screens.  Absolutely no Ipads, televisions, or cell phones. Giving children an Ipad has become an easy form of distraction, but mindfulness is about the opposite of that.   Mindfulness is about getting away from distractions, focusing on your thoughts and being present in the moment.  

Looking for some artwork to decorate your new space?  Check out my free printable quotes and mantras for children!

To learn more about how you can practice mindfulness with your children check out:

5 Ways to Practice Mindfulness with your Children

Mindfulness Resources for Parents and Kids

 

 

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2 Comments

  1. This is such a great idea! I may try to implement this over the weekend. I’ll be sure to let you know how it turns out. Thank you for sharing!

    1. seashen4 says:

      Yay! Please let me know how it goes!!!

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